Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Hints on How to and How NOT to get Hired by CNCH

Having worked in HR for several years...I've seen and heard a whole lot...some good but a whole lot of bad. I know thousands of articles have been written about this topic, but I thought I'd try to bring a little bit of a modern twist to it.  So I thought in a somewhat humourous manner, I'd share these tips to maybe help someone along who may just not know what is and is not appropriate. First, examine the job industry that you are attempting to work in whether it be in a corporate environment or a very relaxed warehouse or on a construction site.  ASK: Who is your target audience?

Let's start with the first impression: Your Resume and Cover Letter or Application

The first thing that employers see is normally the application or resume and cover letter, and even sometimes both depending on the top of job and the industry you're trying to work in.  Now let's walk through the various fields on this document and allow me to part some insight into what information really needs to be provided.  Your name...you would be surprised at what people state as their names.  This should only be your legal name as stated on your Social Security Card. Some applications allow you to provide nicknames.  Use some discretion and please study the corporate culture to see if it's appropriate. I've seen some Bubbas, J.T.s, and JR's and those were fine.  Remember to stay within reason and not with what your grandmother or friends call you at home. Also, unless you're applying to be a model or if it's requested, it's better to leave the photos off.  Whether you realize it or not, you may cause unintentional discrimination. Just FYI-Talking resumes freak some recruiters out. I'm just saying...Most importantly - check it over and over again for spelling and grammatical errors.  Run spellcheck and then have it examined by numerous other people that know what they're doing.  There are plenty of free services available that will help you do this like the State Employment Agency.

E-mail addresses:  Remember this is for WORK! Use something simple like your first and last name. If your name is common, adjust it slightly but don't get too creative. Keep it really easy as this may need to be entered into the company's tracking system and the easier it is to remember and locate, the better.  Email ID's like lilwetwet99@yahoo.com or HighTillIDie@gmail.com should be strickly for social use.  Unless you plan to work in the entertainment industry, these applications and resumes will be discarded without a second glance. The idea is to not give them any reason to not want to call you!

Criminal History:  This can be a tricky one. Please, please, please READ the wording of the question very, very carefully when it asks if you're ever plead guilty or been convicted of any type of crime.  Having something on your record does not automatically disqualify you for the position.  Many companies are getting somewhat lenient on this dependent on the severity.  What they aren't lenient on is non-disclosure or lying.  If it happened within the timeframe they're asking about-write it down! Companies are conducting background checks very thoroughly including driving records, credit reports, and civil court records, so honesty is your best option.  Some may ask for additional details but others do not as long as you admit that it happened. I can't tell you how many times I've seen applicants not disclose the information hoping it won't come up and then lose out on a great job opportunity because they lied or "forgot about that".  Rarely, do the courts lose records so if it's out there, most likely, it will come to light.

Voicemail greetings: In this new age of technology where you can pretty much make everything contour  to your liking, people like to add ringtones and personalized greetings to their phones.  All of this is fine and dandy until it comes time to put your phone number out there requesting that employers contact you regarding employment opportunities.  Then it's time to think business. So many recruiters have complained about this and many just will hang up without even talking to you.  Here are some examples of things that I've seen, heard, and experienced firsthand:
  • Stuey from Family Guy cussing at your callers- Not Appropriate!
  • Hearing Wakka Flakka songs or any loud music period - Not Appropriate!
  • Doing Barney Impersonations - Not Appropriate!
  • Crude Jokes - Not appropriate!
  • You Serenading your callers to your favorite tune - Not Appropriate!
So let's say- you got through the prescreening process and they want you to come in for an interview. Hallelujah- this is where you work your magic!

  1. Study, study, study - Learn the company and what they are looking for in their applicants.  Know their company values and how they operate and then list at least 5-6 detailed questions to get more information.  Use open ended questions and not just ones that could provide a yes or no answer.  If possible, type this up in an organized manner.  You'd be surprised how impressed they'll be about your preparation.  He shows you're interested and you're serious about finding work.
  2. Dress the Part- dark solid colors are best. No large print dresses or skirts above the knee.  Keep the jewelry to a minimum. Studs or small hoops are sufficient. Men should probably avoid earrings. No cologne or strong perfume.  You never know who you may offend with this.  If in doubt- consult a career counselor and ask the interview coordinator what's the normal protocol if you're unsure. Need clothing?  There are resources and organizations out there that help supply applicants with attire for interviewing.  A quick Google or Bing search will help you find them.
  3. Arrive about 10-15 minutes early to calm your nerves and study your notes. Always plan ahead as if to get lost so that you have sufficient time to find the interview location, park, access the floor where your interview will take place.
  4. A firm handshake and great eye contact is very important.  Good posture and be somewhat slow to answer a question too quickly.  Think it over and then respond accordingly using necessary gestures and an occassional smile as deemed appropriate to come across as friendly and approachable.  Remember that your body language can speak much louder than the words out of your mouth.
  5. Lastly, before leaving, ask for a business card so that you can send a thank you note to each person that you interviewed with that day.  That again expresses your level of interest and reminds them of the kind of individual that you are and what you can contribute to their organization.
  6. Congratulations! You got the job.  Now be sure you can pass a drug screen! Many employers are not just conducting urine and blood samples.  Hair follicle testing is being done and this may show drugs in your system for several months out....not a good look! And if needed they will pull lots of hair from anywhere and everywhere you can imagine until they have enough!
I realize that this is a lot of information to take in but hopefully, it will open many doors for you down the road and save you from making some costly, yet unnecessary mistakes.  Happy Job Hunting!

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Merry Christmas!!

I just wanted to wish each of you a very Merry Christmas! Remember that Christ is the true reason for this season so be sure to celebrate Him most importantly!

Don't forget to spice up your wardrobe with lots of color and bling! There's nothing wrong with adding a little dazzle to that plain old red sweater or black cardigan! Find some comfy boots or a pretty metallic clutch to make your outfit sparkle....just some advice from one Diva to another! Need some help? Email me at divatudeboutique@gmail.com and I will be more than happy to assist! It's not nearly as hard as you may think.

Enjoy yourselves but be safe about it!  God Bless each of you!

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Is Everyone Jealous of You?

Ever heard the saying "You just hate me cause you ain't me!"? While there may be some truth to this statement, there may be a bit of self denial going on...let me explain. In listening to some people talk, post, and just watching TV in general, people love to say "They're just jealous." Is this always the case? I doubt it...so out of my own irritation with the saying, I decided to share this tidbit of information:

PLEASE STOP USING  THE CRUTCH OF JEALOUSY AS AN EXCUSE FOR YOU TO NOT DEAL WITH YOUR OWN CHARACTER FLAWS!!!

Surprise, Surprise- Just because someone does not get along with you or care to deal with you, it does not mean that they in any way envy you, want to be you or be anything like you. You might just have an abrasive personality/attitude and they don't want to tolerate your foolishness so they may call you out on your nonsense. They don't have the issue-- you do! So stop saying that others are just jealous of you just to make yourself feel better and quit surrounding yourself with individuals that feed into you being an egomaniac. These individuals most likely lack integrity and are more like leeches than friends, kind of like the weaklings that drug lords keep around them. As much as you like to think so, it is not all about you all of the time. Should you be confident and love yourself? Absolutely! Should that come at the expense of you mistreating, disrespecting, and belittling others? Absolutely not!  Yes there are real haters out there and yes your true haters should be your motivators, but also consider that the real 'hating' may actually be of thyself and thine own deep rooted issues that you have failed to deal with. Don't worry-take that to God and I promise you that the Blood of Jesus can fix all of that!

If you are actually a hater, please stop focusing so much of your energy on others and being in there business. Do you realize how much more productive your life could be if you focused a third of that time on getting your own act together? Hmmm...food for thought! Like Ice Cube said- "You Better Check yo self  before you Wreck yo self!" The rest of us will just pray for you till change comes! ;-)

Be Blessed!

Friday, November 19, 2010

Qualities of a Diva by Michelle McKinney Hammond

What is a diva? Per the dictionary: a distinguished female singer; prima donna; often used negatively to describe a celebrity in film or music who is extremely demanding and fussy when it comes to personal privileges.

Divas have gotten a bad name in the past.  They were seen as fabulous women who knew they were fabulous, swaying to the side of vanity and high maintenance.  I maintain a truly divine diva is none of the above.  She is a woman who knows that life is not about her but rather the contribution she makes to others around her and the legacy she will leave behind.

Divas never just walk into a room, they arrive!  Their bearing and manner sends the signal loud and clear that "I am a woman set apart."  They never exit a room without leaving a part of themselves behind. A rich deposit of wisdom, an encouraging word, something seemingly intangible yet profound, that leaves a lasting impression on the hearts of those who interacted with them.

A Diva lives a centered life. Centered in the knowledge of her God, her purpose, and what is truly important.  Because she is centered, she is sure-footed when the seasons of her life change.  She adjusts without resistance or trepidation, valuing change as a necessary component of a life that explores and reaches its fullest potential.  She takes one day at a time.

To be continued...

The Definition of My Divatude by Jowana M.

Found this online and thought I'd share it....

Definition of My Divatude by Jowana M.

The definition of my divatude
is too profound for your comprehension
My walk, talk and sweet, sassy sway
My knowledge, my humility,
My capability to follow and my ability to lead

You mistook my soft-spoken speech
For uncertainty
My delightful disposition
For cowardice
But my complacency is not what you think

Assuming I do not know because I do not speak
I'd just rather not waste time on the
Lame, misguided, and weak

Yes, my divatude is too profound for your comprehension
Sorry I wasted your time
The man I thought you were
Was only a dream deferred
I will find a substantial mate
Of that I am sure

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Welcome to the Divatude Boutique!

Welcome to the Divatude Boutique!
What in the world is the Divatude Boutique you ask? The Divatude Boutique is the up and coming premiere provider of sophisticated apparel, gifts, and accessories to enhance every aspect of your life! From your attire to your activities, attitude is everything and class and confidence should always shine from within. I believe that when you feel good on the inside, it'll show on the outside and the Divatude Boutique has everything you need to meet your full DIVA potential and ensure that they match!

My goal is to educate and entertain young women while helping them discover their inner Diva as well as to celebrate those that are already all too familiar with their own DIVA that lies within! I will be posting fashion styling tips and relationship advice, thought provoking questions and helpful links, pictures, as well as requesting feedback from each of you. There are enough blogs out there that focus simply on gossip and mess! I want to stay positive and attract those individuals who want the same. Though you may find that I critique some things, I never want to be perceived as a hater! I believe in allowing everyone to do their thing and rock it out as best they know how! I will express my opinion if I'm not a fan of something, but I don't expect anyone to necessarily follow my lead. There's nothing wrong with having an opinion-you just need to learn how to respect everyone else's and realize it's just that-an opinion, not a fact! Fellas you're invited to participate as well because ladies love to hear the male perspective so don't be shy!

This blog will also be used for market research as I am developing a fashion line with the plus-sexy size diva (size 14+) in mind, so I'll need to make sure that I am desiging items that cater to those of you who currently have difficulty with their current shopping experiences. Do you or someone that you know wear a size 9 shoe or higher? Have a wide or flat foot but every shoe fails to sufficiently support you? My shoe line is dedicated to you! Hopefully, I'll help to change your less than positive experiences or enhance it as this blog is all for and about you! Just remember- those that help me now, will have a big reward later: Free and discounted stuff!

Now that that is out of the way, you may ask what is an inner diva? How in the world do I go about discovering mine? Aren't divas vain? Do I really want to be a diva at all? All of these are valid questions and will be addressed in the days to come. So stay tuned! You can follow me on Twitter @DivaOfStyle. I'm still building the Facebook fan page, but it will be ready very soon! Thanks for stopping by! Blessings to you!