Is Everyone Jealous of You?

Ever heard the saying "You just hate me cause you ain't me!"? While there may be some truth to this statement, there may be a bit of self denial going on...let me explain. In listening to some people talk, post, and just watching TV in general, people love to say "They're just jealous." Is this always the case? I doubt it...so out of my own irritation with the saying, I decided to share this tidbit of information:

PLEASE STOP USING  THE CRUTCH OF JEALOUSY AS AN EXCUSE FOR YOU TO NOT DEAL WITH YOUR OWN CHARACTER FLAWS!!!

Surprise, Surprise- Just because someone does not get along with you or care to deal with you, it does not mean that they in any way envy you, want to be you or be anything like you. You might just have an abrasive personality/attitude and they don't want to tolerate your foolishness so they may call you out on your nonsense. They don't have the issue-- you do! So stop saying that others are just jealous of you just to make yourself feel better and quit surrounding yourself with individuals that feed into you being an egomaniac. These individuals most likely lack integrity and are more like leeches than friends, kind of like the weaklings that drug lords keep around them. As much as you like to think so, it is not all about you all of the time. Should you be confident and love yourself? Absolutely! Should that come at the expense of you mistreating, disrespecting, and belittling others? Absolutely not!  Yes there are real haters out there and yes your true haters should be your motivators, but also consider that the real 'hating' may actually be of thyself and thine own deep rooted issues that you have failed to deal with. Don't worry-take that to God and I promise you that the Blood of Jesus can fix all of that!

If you are actually a hater, please stop focusing so much of your energy on others and being in there business. Do you realize how much more productive your life could be if you focused a third of that time on getting your own act together? Hmmm...food for thought! Like Ice Cube said- "You Better Check yo self  before you Wreck yo self!" The rest of us will just pray for you till change comes! ;-)

Be Blessed!